What Pastor's Neglect in Women's Ministry

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Second, every pastor has a responsibility for teaching Christian doctrine and living to the various demographic groups in the body of Christ. This includes older women (v. 3). Quick: How many pastors have you known or can you name who have an active intentional teaching ministry to the older ladies in his church besides his general pulpit ministry? The pulpit ministry counts. But I suspect Paul has something else in mind in these verses because the emphasis on Christian living is so robust it's difficult to imagine teaching all these things to all these groups via one outlet (the pulpit). But I cannot think of one pastor who regularly meets with the older women of his church, reads with them, talks with them, or instructs them in reverent behavior, bridled speech, sobriety or teaching others. In fact, to our shame, sometimes the most ill-equipped persons in the church are the older women who feel inadequate to carry out their vital ministry to younger women.

Third, the pastor's ministry to older women is no less a gospel ministry than his prayer, evangelism or regular preaching. In fact, the older women's ministry to younger women—which the pastor should equip them to carry out—protects the gospel. This must be done so "that the word of God may not be reviled" (v. 5).

I fear that far too many of us pastors don't imagine much gospel fruit when we look at the older women in our congregations and imagine spending time with them. We're much too drawn to the younger men who show promise. We're much too attracted to career professionals who seem to be doing something in the world.

We find it easier and more enjoyable to be with the youth group than to have tea with the senior ladies. We pour ourselves into the men of our congregation with hope of fruit while neglecting the older women who would not only bear fruit in their personal lives but in all the homes of our church as they train younger women in sound doctrine and sound living.

The negative effects of neglecting older women show up in our ministries in various ways. In the unending march of marriage counseling sessions with couples who haven't learned the lessons of Titus 2. In the sneaking suspicion that we favor men rather than women. In the continuing concern that there's no place for women in the church. In the feeling of oppression or marginalization many serious and saintly women express. In time, money and energy invested in women's ministries that sometimes veer away from the church's core mission. In the isolation, discouragement and hopelessness that some women experience. In the incalculable loss of wisdom when older saints aren't equipped and organized to share with others. I could go on, but you see the point. A great treasure is lost and much pain multiplied when we pastors neglect this aspect of our job description.

So what to do?

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