Do You Believe This Candy-Coated Lie?

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We were watching a competition show on TV last night, and one of the judges tried to encourage a young contestant by telling him, "Remember: You're enough. You've always been enough." And I lit up. I'm so mad right now just thinking about it that I can feel my pulse rate going up.

Do you realize there are a whole bunch of these little expressions that creep into our culture, and they're like gross jelly beans? "Oh look, candy!" you say, until you pop it in your mouth and realize it's actually barf flavor. Why do they make those disgusting flavors? Why do people buy them and eat them?

"You're enough" is a sweet-coated, candy-shaped expression that we hear all of the time, but let's open the Word of God together and look at the truth about ourselves: "For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God" (Rom. 3:23).

We're not enough. We've never been enough.

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I can feel this as school starts, and I know there are going to be times when my precious students say and do what is wrong. And I know from years of experience now that there will be times all throughout the year when I'm going to have to say to a student, "I'm sorry. I shouldn't have said that to you" or "I'm sorry, I should not have done that."

We fall short. We've always fallen short.

Which is why we need Jesus in a desperate way, from the minute we wake up until the minute our heads hit the pillow. This is why we hear the blessed words of Psalm 23:1: "The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want." My husband preached a good one last week and said that we're always desperately needy, but Jesus is always the shepherd.

Jesus brings the "enough."

C.S. Lewis, in Mere Christianity, uses the word "relief."

I wish I had got a bit further with humility myself: if I had, I could probably tell you more about the relief, the comfort, of taking the fancy-dress off—getting rid of the false self, with all its "Look at me" and "Aren't I a good boy?" and all its posing and posturing. To get even near it, even for a moment, is like a drink of cold water to a man in a desert.

Let's pick the candy-coated, barf-flavored expressions out of our language and throw them in the trash. Feel the sweet relief of humility, as you say, "I am not enough and never will be, but thank God He sent Jesus to be all that I lack." We reach out needy hands and rejoice in having all we need in the Good Shepherd.

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Christy Fitzwater is an author and pastor's wife living in Kalispell, Montana. She is the author of Blameless: Living A Life Free from Guilt And Shame and My Father's Hands: 52 Reasons to Trust God with Your Heart. Find her devotional writing at

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